It’s pretty simple. Superficial connections lead to a life lived only on the surface, without depth, without feeling that you are truly living. Your only function like a machine – perfect maybe – but according to some rules that are not yours, but that you learned when you were little or that society dictated to you.

You don’t talk much about how you feel; you’re concerned about how you’re perceived, don’t want to disturb, and do everything in your power not to be judged. Most of the time, without realizing it, you are what others want and how you imagine you should be in order not to disappoint.

But the truth is that most of us are searching, unconsciously or not, for an authentic connection, and that’s because we feel that something is missing from our lives, even if we don’t know exactly what. Many, over time, got used to it. Some are still looking for it, but only when they find it do they not dare to stay in it.

Others flourish when they find it

To enjoy such a connection, you need courage because it involves taking off all the masks and shields that protect you and giving up the need to control what will happen.

The other day I was talking with a colleague from the Escort Agency I always considered extremely analytical about everything and everything, who rarely shows his emotions. In a moment of vulnerability, he told me he would do anything to feel and have that genuine connection that I kept telling him about. I couldn’t believe it because, for years, I had tried – without success – to take all our discussions to a more emotional area, feeling that he needed it.

He admitted to me that he was always afraid to do it, especially with me, because he thought that he must always be intense and not emotional, which does not help us to have a profound connection.

I love people who can be authentic, but unfortunately, most people’s fears don’t let them be like that. Now, more than ever, we need real connections. Because of social networks, many of us feel more connected than ever when reality is the exact opposite of what we think. Many likes or appreciative comments do not make us better or more beautiful, let alone connect with those who write to us.

Why is it essential for me to have a relationship where I feel there is a real connection:

• I feel like I’m living
• I can be vulnerable, and I dare to be all that I am in the most challenging moments without being afraid or ashamed to show the parts of myself that maybe I am not the most comfortable with
• I feel seen, heard and felt
• I know you can say anything without being judged
• I know someone is always there for me
• I feel happy and full of life
• I feel safe and protected
• No matter how stressed or anxious I am, it all goes away when I feel that real connection
• I have gained incredible strength, and I know that, regardless of everything, everything will be fine
• I love unconditionally
• I have more confidence in myself

How to have a real connection:

• Be authentic, show yourself as you are, and say what you feel
• Be vulnerable
• Be open to new people and situations
• Say YES more often
• Be present in the interactions with those around you
• Do not judge
• Empathize and be there for those important to you
• Avoid always seeing the empty side of the glass or creating negative scenarios about the future.
• Listen
• Allow yourself to take risks

The secret of beauty differs from one woman to another

I don’t know what the secret of beauty is, but to feel beautiful, I need a little mascara, a pair of earrings and perfume. They give me more confidence in myself, although I don’t think it changes the overall picture much. Over time, however, I noticed that there are days when these “accessories” are no longer enough for me. I’m missing the essential factor: the sincere joy that can be read on the face. A woman is beautiful when her eyes sparkle when she has a zest for life, and when she infects those around her with her cheerfulness. Otherwise, it’s just a doll in the shop window… inert, void of the soul…

What makes you feel beautiful every day?

It is known that escort girls time is somehow compressed, and the 24 hours sometimes seem to be only half. And then, when you have so much on your mind, what can you do quickly to be beautiful? Next, several escort girls reveal to us what their beauty secret is and how they manage to feel beautiful every day, despite the lack of time.

Charlotte, glamorous escort girl in Bayswater, 22 years old: “I don’t do anything special; I remove my makeup every morning and evening, no matter how late it is, even if I’m wearing makeup or not! And to feel beautiful, I wear a little mascara; I see the hottest girl, and I wear my favorite perfume!”

Katie, friendly escort girl in Bayswater, 24 years old: “I wear clothes that suit me, that is, fitted trousers, loose blouses with low necklines and a little makeup. Of course, I don’t forget to give myself a little perfume too”.

Anda, educated escort girl in Bayswater, 21 years old: “I don’t have any beauty rituals. If I have time to comb my hair, brush my teeth and put on a little perfume, it’s like saying I’ve prepared for the wedding…”

Kaz, dedicated escort girl in Mayfair, 23 years old: “The secret of beauty for me is to feel good in my skin! To look in the mirror and feel like me, to feel good when I look at myself and not be someone else.

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1. What does social media mean?

Currently, 3.96 billion people use social media. If we remove from the equation minors up to 13 years old, approximately 65% of the planet’s entire population is active online.

Social media is a universe built from social networks, forums, blogs, video sharing sites, mobile applications, online games, and, more recently, the new concept called “Metaverse”. The definition of social media is related to online services because it represents a bidirectional communication that has as its final point the obtaining of profit. For companies, social media is necessary. The companies that didn’t keep up with the new revolution have disappeared, so the brand or the business you’re dealing with must shine online.

Ten days with me and for me, with those around me, present in every moment, in my reality, not in the virtual one, for which most of us have come to live, far too careful to always make the choices that to make us look as “good” as possible in the eyes of others, far too concerned with posting only those images that “say” about us that we have a perfect life. My colleagues at the Escort Agency really appreciated my idea, and some of them wanted to try for themselves.

Ten days in, I stopped and turned my attention from the outside to the inside, where everything was.

Where there are answers to any question, you have related to what you need, what you feel and what you should do. Where is the strength of each of us, the balance and above all, the love, strength and trust that you choose to live your life for yourself and not others?

I stopped taking pictures and posted at every step the frames that I thought were interesting, beautiful or special, perfect for collecting the thousands of LIKEs desired by most. I enjoyed the food without photographing it but feeling it, the sunsets so spectacular, the sea so blue and the unreal white and fine sand.

I sat for hours and looked and felt them, and it helped me feel better about myself, to know exactly what’s inside because, most of the time, we don’t have time to do it, and most of the time, we don’t even want to.

We prefer to hide from ourselves why we feel and what we want

For fear of not feeling the sadness, anger or frustration that we don’t dare to do what we want, for fear of being judged or rejected, for fear of losing the carefully created image with which we deceive ourselves so much, as well as the others.

How do I know this? Because I did it for a long time

But when you hide from yourself, deny yourself, how you are, cancel yourself lost between what you MUST do, THAT’S HOW things are DONE and ONLY NOW you can.

You think and analyze more than you feel because you are more in mind and less in the heart. If you want to understand more about this, I recommend watching the documentary The Power of The Heart on Gaia.

Did I miss being present on Social Media and seeing what others are doing?

Not even for a second. I had all the time in the world for those around me, for what I felt and experienced and especially for myself.

And I didn’t say at every step to the despair of those around me: take a picture of me too; wait, don’t eat, because I want to take a picture; or, let’s try another shot because this doesn’t look good. I guess it sounds familiar. It’s true, I don’t have as many pictures as I usually had during the holidays until now, but I had time, peace and space. Good luck to my friends, who couldn’t help themselves, so I have some beautiful pictures taken by them in the wonderful places I’ve been.

I hardly opened the Instagram application today, but with gratitude for the ten days and what I gained from them.

I understand that the addiction to the phone and especially to Instagram makes you shudder, and you can’t even imagine giving them up even for a day, especially when I remember the reactions of many a few months ago, when Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp crashed, and there was a general panic.

But as terrible as it seems, it is as good if you dare to do it. Because I have to warn you: if you use your phone and Social Media to take refuge from emotions that are hard to bear, from what you don’t like in your life, or if you get confirmation of who you are from there, it won’t be easy. I know that in my case and that of many, the phone and especially Social Media are important and help us a lot. Still, I also know that the phone is one of the most significant stress-causing factors, so there is a need for balance in the relationship with it.

I leave you a few things to help you analyze and adjust your relationship with your phone and social media:

How many hours do you spend on the phone? When do you feel like picking up the phone? How many times a day? What do you think when you see that you don’t have the number of LIKEs you want for your pictures compared to the others you follow?

How do you feel if you forget your phone or run out of battery?

If your answers to the questions above contain anxiety, agitation, nervousness, or sadness, you may be addicted to your phone. Accept that. Addictions can only be overcome if they are accepted.

Make a plan to help you reduce your time on your phone: use apps to remind you to put it down and read Digital Minimalism, written by Cal Newport.

Try Mindfulness methods – such as meditation – which can help you always to be attentive to what you do and feel about your phone.

I invite you to try to disconnect from Social Media and spend less time on the phone, at least for a few days. It can be a fascinating experiment, which I would like you to tell me about after you do it.

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As an escort girl, I think it is no longer news to anyone that childhood years are decisive in our emotional development and significantly impact how we perceive ourselves as adults.

As we mature, we realize things that we could not define or express when we were little, even if we felt them. We couldn’t even describe how they made us think or affected us because we didn’t have the necessary “tools” to process emotions. In most families, specific emotions, the “negative” ones, were not accepted; they had no space to be expressed. And then, we grew up believing that we were not allowed to express those emotions until they came to seem unimportant.

In my journey of self-discovery, I realized, after so many years, gestures or words that I missed or attitudes that hurt me when I was little. I do NOT condemn my parents; they raised me as they knew best, depending on their circumstances and the information they had, but times have changed, and now we have discovered how important emotions are in our development as balanced adults.

Now we discover that a good child is not necessarily a happy child, just as a rebellious child is not necessarily spoiled or naughty but may have sufferings that we do not know and cannot explain.

Analyzing my relationship with my mother, I realize that being a parent is not easy. No matter how hard you try to be perfect, you will make mistakes at some point and have to accept that. But maybe raising a child who later becomes a healthy and balanced adult is not about perfection but something much more tangible: an authentic connection.

As an escort girl, working in a friendly environment at the Escort Agency, I think that, first of all, the basis of a happy childhood is not complex parenting strategies but simple things such as care, acceptance, attention, gentleness, patience and especially love… And no, I am not relying on my experience as a parent because I’m not a mother, but I rely on my experience as a child who grew up and who now knows what he would have needed.

So, what do I think a child needs to become a balanced adult?

He needs you to talk to him.

Your parenting words are more powerful than you think, so choose them wisely and lovingly. Talk a lot with your child about everything. Express your emotions to show him that it is okay for him to do this too. He will thus realize that it is not a weakness to talk about what you feel and to open up to other people. Many of the people of my generation did not have open communication with their parents, which affected us in various ways, including how we relate to the world and those around us. We know how important communication is, so try to create a “safe” space where your child can express his feelings.

He needs to be seen and heard

Most of the time, our parents ignored us because they had too much work, were in adult discussions, or were too tired for us. And today, most parents are too preoccupied with their lives, with their phones, so children are left in the care of nannies or grandparents. But children need to be seen and heard by their parents because they need attention for everything they do or feel. They want to be applauded for every good grade, achievement or maybe just for a simple joke they made. Children must grow up knowing they are essential to the people they love.

He needs affection – offered in a balanced way…

How you express your affection towards your child will significantly impact his adult life. Children who feel loved and appreciated develop healthy self-esteem and can offer appreciation in return. But when affection is conditioned by the promise of being good or getting good grades, a child is likelier to develop unhealthy attachments as an adult.

What needs did you have when you were little, from this point of view? Maybe it will help you to ask yourself this question. I knew I needed the certainty that my parents loved me, that I was “enough” even when I made a mistake or took a slight grade. I didn’t always get it, so I understood that I always have to do something to get the love I want in return, that it doesn’t just come.

On the other hand, “suffocating” with affection can be harmful because it prevents you from establishing healthy boundaries with your child. Hence, many adults, especially men, do not accept too much love from their partners.

He needs encouragement

Confidence and self-esteem are formed in childhood, and the encouragement that comes from parents is significant. You are the first person to whom he will look for that “You can do this!” which motivates him to overcome his fears and show the world what he is capable of. And he still needs you to tell him that a failure is not the end of the country, that he will get up and try again until he succeeds.

Failure is an enormous monster even when we reach adulthood because we were taught from childhood to fear it. Our parents didn’t tell us, perhaps, that we can make friends by mistake, that this can become the lesson that helps us succeed. I, for one, was so afraid of not making a mistake that sometimes I felt short of breath when faced with a situation where I could fail in what I set out to do.

There are so many exams in life, to enter high school and college, to get your driver’s license and many others, but not an exam that guarantees you will be a good parent. This also involves soul abilities, which we do not learn at school.

I firmly believe that to become a good parent, you need to go through your self-knowledge process, understand yourself, know what your wounds and traumas are and know what to do with them in order not to pass them on to your children.

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The sexual act represents a union between two individuals, an escort girl and a client, conditioned by a certain social context, by their psychological and reproductive needs.

Although there are cultures where foreplay is considered unnecessary, for most people, it must exist and be as pleasant as the sexual act itself. The manifestations during the foreplay can be more restrained or apparent and are all the more refined the more the partners are trained and more concerned with mutual satisfaction.

The erotic kiss is essential in the foreplay with different intensities, as is the manual stimulation of the genital areas. Some couples use stimulation through pain during foreplay, with slight tendencies toward sadistic manifestations of men being described as confident female passivity.

Also, oral-genital stimulation is used by many couples as a prelude to the affective situation and the existence or not of various reserves depending on the social and religious context. Oral-genital stimulation can be applied only by one of the partners to the other, or it can be mutual. In well-welded couples, it can sometimes replace sexual intercourse with penetration.

The sexual act itself

Sexual intercourse is the act by a client and an escort from our Escort Agency, a feat that allows fertilization and, therefore, reproduction. But sexual intercourse is not practiced; it serves not only to have children but also for the pleasure it produces. Today, more and more people are talking about the need to give their partner pleasure, without which personal satisfaction cannot be obtained.

What attracts a girl and a boy to each other is the emotion of love and the sexual motivation that combine and dominate each other due to the senses, but also the ideas, imagination, culture and feelings of the two partners. They all represent the desire to have sexual intercourse; the passion is led and controlled by several factors of a nervous and hormonal nature.

In men, the penis suddenly increases its volume under the influence of desire.

It changes its position, from the position parallel to the thighs, to the position perpendicular to the thighs. This phenomenon, the erection, is due to the influx of blood into the penis, as previously presented.

In women, the desire produces less visible but equally important effects: an influx of blood to the vagina and tiny drops of liquid eliminated to facilitate sexual intercourse. The vagina changes; its upper part becomes oval while its lower third narrows to hold the penis during intercourse.

Sexual intercourse, specific to each person, takes place in four phases, each of which has its duration:

• the excitement phase;
• the penetration phase;
• the pleasure phase;
• the relaxation phase.

The phase of excitement or desire is when the man and the woman prepare for sexual intercourse. Next comes the penetration phase, the penetration of the penis into the vagina, which lasts until orgasm.

Orgasm, or the pleasure phase, is of short duration but great intensity, the climax of sexual pleasure. It is followed by a relaxation phase, which returns to the normal state from before the sexual act. It is not the duration of the sexual act that is important, but its success, i.e. the mutual satisfaction of both partners.

Oral sex

Oral sex stimulates the female or male genital organs with the mouth or tongue and is an ancient and widespread practice. A study shows that more than 90% of married couples under 25 have this practice, and there is evidence that older couples also try it, some even for the first time.

Oral sex is an excellent way of foreplay or arousal to the orgasm of the partner. The scientific names for oral sex are cunnilingus and fellatio for the oral stimulation of the female and male genital organs, respectively.

Couples who practice oral sex see it as a normal and enjoyable thing, a reliable method of arousal for men and a tender and slow method for women. Oral sex is very regular; some studies show that about 9 out of 10 people accept it while making love. Not every couple takes, but no one is forced to practice oral sex.

Specialists prove that oral sex involves the exchange of fluids, and there is a risk of contamination with sexually transmitted diseases. Some American authorities in the field have declared that as long as neither partner has open wounds in the mouth, oral sex is risk-free. Men and women may not like oral sex for different reasons: women may be worried that the penis could cause suffocation, or they do not like the taste or appearance of semen, just as some men do not like the taste or smell of vaginal and vaginal fluids.

Oral sex is enjoyable, but it can create problems if only one of the partners accepts it. The solution consists of discussions on this topic between the partners. Some fears may be completely unfounded.

Fellatio

It is relaxing for your partner if he lies down, but you can also sit on your knees, and he stands or on a chair. During the act, you can caress the rest of his body, thus increasing his arousal. First, she kisses and licks the penis, holding its base in her hand. Use your tongue to explore the body of the penis, going to the top, gently licking his frenum. If you feel ready, you can insert the penis into your mouth and slowly move up and down. If he moves his thighs, try to “accompany” this movement.

Hold your hand at its base to control how far the penis enters the mouth. If the stimulation continues, your partner will probably get closer to orgasm. If you don’t want him to ejaculate in your mouth, tell him that you can continue stimulating him only with your hand or move on to vaginal penetration. During fellatio, your fingers can easily touch other parts of the body or the genitals to increase your pleasure.

Tips:

– for women:

– go from kissing to sucking the penis;

– do not blow because this can cause infection;

– don’t bite him and try not to touch his penis with your teeth;

– don’t swallow sperm unless you want to if you don’t tell him to withdraw his penis before ejaculation;

– if it bothers you that your partner ejaculates in your mouth, but you don’t want to swallow a pack of napkins and get rid of the seminal fluid as quickly as possible;

– for men:

– do not penetrate the partner’s mouth too much;

– if the partner wants to take a break, don’t insist;

– don’t force your partner to ejaculate in her mouth or swallow sperm.

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Honest attention

The first tip is somewhat complicated, but it is essential for the health of the entire relationship. A lack of conversation and a lack of interest in the other person are often the reasons why partners withdraw, and not much happens between the sheets. Exciting: According to a survey, 24 per cent of escorts working with our Escort Agency would like their partner to talk about feelings more often, and 31 per cent of men would like their partner to be more sexually active. In some cases, the two probably go hand in hand.

Couples should therefore take the time for joint conversations and lively exchange. If you know what occupies or inspires others, you will automatically be able to participate more actively in their lives. This, in turn, leads to the feeling of being accepted and wanted by the other person, which can positively affect the libido. Silence is anything but “gold” in relationships.

Sexy clothing with style

The visual impression is also essential in long-term partnerships. All too often, partners let themselves go and pay less and less attention to their appearance. Usually, only a vague memory remains of the woman with the sexy clothes or the man with the well-fitting jeans. However, taking time for personal hygiene, clothing, and a stylish appearance can be essential for the success of a partnership. If you are good to yourself and feed your own self-esteem, you will also be able to devote yourself more open to the other person.

Shopping excursions or browsing online shops together can offer a way back to the old attraction. We recommend that partners show each other which clothes they are likely to particularly like on the other. If you find what you are looking for, you can save a little with the help of various discount campaigns and vouchers and then look forward to your new wardrobe all the more. An atmospheric fashion show is, of course, a must!

Lots of free space

There are few things more uncomfortable in a relationship than feeling trapped or trapped. Sometimes, however, a golden cage can develop over the years from which partners no longer like to break out. They meet their friends less and less, neglect personal interests and have long stopped pursuing the hobbies they once loved. This can be deadly for sex life because when couples practically merge with each other, the desire to discover the further person decreases.

For this reason, a relationship should always have a lot of freedom. Partners should pursue their interests and not spend time together all the time. Those who meet their own needs and continue to enjoy an exciting life outside of the relationship life feel much less oppressed and can also enjoy sex more again.

Permitted Adventures

This tip is for particularly open-minded couples. This is where they breathe life into their relationship with the help of deliberately allowed adventures. The experiences and how far partners are allowed to go should be precisely defined in advance. After all, it doesn’t have to be a completely open relationship. Installing a flirt app and correspondingly sexy chats with other people can also have a very stimulating effect. However, the desire that arises is then satisfied in your bed.

Couples who would like to go further and move more in the direction of the open concept should discuss this in detail beforehand. Natural flirts and dates with other people can shake even the most stable partnerships. It is, therefore, important that both parties agree on this.

Exciting toys

Of course, sex toys are also among the potentially practical means of keeping a long-term relationship going erotically. This is where joint shopping evenings come in handy again. Making yourself comfortable together on the couch and browsing through erotic online shops can already arouse the desire.

The whole thing gets exciting when couples suggest to each other and order toys they want to try out on themselves and on the other. If you like it, toy shopping could even become a regular activity that stimulates sex life again and again.

Special movie nights

No question: Many couples spend much of their evenings together on the sofa. There’s nothing wrong with that, but inevitable boredom can set in. Anyone who always watches the same series or documentaries, perhaps even falling asleep while doing so and then later only exchanging a quick kiss goodnight, will sooner or later experience little erotic pleasure.

But it can look very different if erotic films are deliberately on the schedule instead of the usual formats. There are lists of the hottest erotic movies online, from which couples can choose their favorites. And if you like this, you might want to watch a jointly selected porn long-term. There is nothing disreputable about this; on the contrary: erotic films often offer a lot of inspiration, and the strange faces on the screen provide a particular variety.

 9 Things you should know about relationships

1. All successful relationships require a lot of work. You can’t lie on your back thinking that everything is fine. Moment by moment, you have to fight for the love of the person next to you.
2. Most of the time, you get what you get. If you want love, then give love, if you wish to be friends, then choose to be friendly, if you want them to understand you, learn to listen.
3. You should never fight for a place in someone’s life. Never force anyone to make space in his life for you because if he knows how valuable you are, he will create it for you.
4. There is a purpose for which people enter your life – some will test you, others will use you, and others will learn from you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
5. We all change, and that’s okay. Our needs change with time; feelings change, problems change…everything in this world changes. It is essential to be open and sincere and say what is on your mind.

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A few years ago, I was with friends at an event, as an escort girl, in the broader circle of acquaintances. A discussion started about passions, and someone who did not know me closely asked me what passions I have. I found myself talking very excitedly about my job, about the fashion industry. Still, the person in question stopped me after the first words and asked me calmly: “but this is what you work for. I was talking about passions. Do you feel alive doing these things?”.

I mumbled because I didn’t have an answer. And I didn’t necessarily feel “alive”, either. It was the moment when I realized that I associate all my job-related activities with the notion of passion. And it was by no means like that. I needed someone to show me this.

I set out then to find out what are the things that make me vibrate and feel “alive”. I kept with me the intention to discover my true passions and to be attentive to the things that fill me with joy. Why? Because when we find our job among our passions, life becomes more accessible and much more satisfying, for example working with an Escort Agency, as a companion. Not to mention the day-to-day efficiency!

Why is it so hard for us to separate our passions from the things we do out of inertia?

The answer is obvious now, and it concerns the dynamics in today’s society. In recent years, around the notion of “passions,” there has been so much commotion and discussion that the discovery of passions has reached the rank of Chapter in the CV or the profile on social networks. It is “mandatory” to have passions, cultivate them, express them, and display them on social media. And this obligation is precisely what distances us from our true callings.

Not to mention the family pressure, which, especially in the case of ordinary people, is enormous. Because, most of the time, cultivating from early childhood the belief that a child must follow the parents’ career to be able to carry on the family legacy, the parents manage to completely distance him from his true essence and from those things that make him feel fulfilled. The child grows up already knowing what he has to do when he grows up, and it very rarely happens that he asks himself questions early enough to be able to change something.

But, because lately, I hear around me more and more people who wake up in the context of a life that they did not choose, but their parents or the social environment, and they realize that they want to change something, but they have no idea where to start, I thought it would be helpful to tell how I managed to detach myself from what I have to do.

I began to see what I wanted to do. It’s about a list of questions that I asked myself and that I continue to ask myself when something doesn’t fit, and that helped me enormously to discover things about myself that I wasn’t necessarily aware of:

What do I like to do?

This question generated the first list in my hobby diary. I wrote down here all those things that make me happy, those that, when I do them, completely absorb me so that I lose track of time.

What gives me energy, and what positively charges me?

Like anyone else, I have days when I don’t feel at my best. Still, when I do a one-to-one coaching session, I listen to someone who has a problem where I can help or something to do that inspires people – whether it’s a Ted Talk, a speech for a company, an interview or a podcast – I’m charged with extraordinary energy! And when my energy tank is complete, I can go on. And this is one of the things that fills me with joy!

What makes me curious?

We are a generation transitioning to a different rhythm of information exchange, much more alert – that is clear to everyone. Many things bombard us, each more attractive, and the temptation is to want to be up to date with everything, to know as much as possible. But if you take a little time for yourself and analyze very briefly the fields in which you choose to invest your energy, you will discover that some attract you more than others.

In my case, the fields that attract me the most are those that deal with everything related to human nature and the processes through which it develops and evolves: thoughts and emotions, the structure of the brain, the connection between mind and body, the interactions between people and their behaviors, healthy lifestyle, what makes the body work well, stress, burnout, the way we adapt to the experience and how we can lead a more harmonious life. Whenever I immerse myself in this kind of information, I completely lose track of time!

What did I like to do when I was a child?

When I was little, I liked having guests or going on visits where several people gathered. I loved being surrounded by people, seeing how they interact, talking to each one and learning their stories, and more than that, I remember how much I loved sharing what I had with others. So much so that someone once told me I have “the makings of a philanthropist”. I didn’t understand then what he was referring to, but now I know he was right!

I watched films about people and their mental and emotional states with great emotion, and my favorite film was “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest”. Since then, I have been passionate about everything related to the “healing” of people. That’s why my acquaintances believed I would become a doctor for a long time.

I liked to change 1000 times, match and combine things, test, and arrange myself. As it happens in childhood, connection with people is essential for me. Apart from the moments of solitude that I choose and enjoy with all my heart because they reset me from all points of view, being isolated from people always hurts me.

So, from my experience and from what I have seen, I advise you to look a little at what you liked to do when you were a child, and you will discover the things that attract you now!

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What are fantasies?

Fantasies can be defined as daydreams and imaginary visions. Fantasies are a fundamental part of human nature. During childhood, the individual develops an impressive active imagination, only to be inhibited towards adulthood.

What are sexual fantasies?

Sexual fantasies are represented by any mental image or story that is exciting or erotic for the escort girl. The sexual fantasy can be of varying length, even an instant impression that arouses sexual desires, sexual motivations, and excitement. Fantasy can represent the image of a positive or negative experience, reflecting an experience or a future or desired sexual experience. A person can be limited and restricted against staging a sexual fantasy. As the whole process takes place in his imagination, he must not necessarily conform to acceptable or practical fantasies but give free rein to the invention (these aspects can provide certain information about the psychological processes behind sexual behaviour).

In general, the idea is circulating that sexual fantasies play a vital role in cases of sexual assault – on the other hand, the total lack of sexual fantasies or the guilt surrounding the story contributes to the emergence of sexual dysfunctions.

Sexual fantasies can be heterosexual, homosexual, incestuous, tender, wild, etc. don’t block yourself and don’t be afraid to give free rein to these fantasies – they are just dreams… with your eyes open.

For some clients of our Escort Agency, the best aspects of sexual fantasy are the visual ones (masks, costumes, etc.), and for others, the auditory ones (dirty talking, sensual talking, preference for certain sounds, certain music). Other aspects of fantasy may include physical sensations (finger cubes, feathers, the feeling of heat, silky textures, etc.). But for most, the most spectacular part of a sexual fantasy is the evoked emotion (suspense, impudence, audacity).

How are sexual fantasies generated?

People show different abilities to fantasize about various topics, including sexual ones, and other skills to enjoy this behaviour. Fantasies can be a supplement to reality or can serve as a substitute for sexual reality. Sexual fantasies are often generated by external stimuli, an attractive stranger, an erotic, sensual image, an erotic, romantic film, a story, music, etc.

Sexual fantasies – content

Sexual fantasies can be wild or quiet; they can be related to a natural person or an imaginary one, and they can include activities that you would like to do, scenes that you would never try (either because of the degree of danger, either due to the impossibility of realization), they may involve an unusual, crazy, unreal setting or they may involve role-playing. Sexual fantasies can also involve new and exciting sexual activities for a person, such as using sex toys, experimenting with certain positions, sex with multiple partners, erotic massage, etc.

There are situations in which certain women have fantasies about rape or wild, more violent sex. Careful! This does not mean that she wants to become the real victim of rape. In her imagination, the woman can control every aspect of the events. The imaginary scenario is undoubtedly much less brutal than real life (it does not involve pain, terror, or mental and physical degradation). The woman’s imagination creates this fantasy generated by the idea of ​​a man overwhelmed by the attractiveness of a woman who forces her into a sexual relationship, suggesting irresistibility.

The explanation of the psychological specialists: the woman uses this means to express her desire to feel wanted, irresistible from a sexual point of view and helps her overcome certain inhibitions. If she succeeds in deceiving herself that she is being forced to participate in a sexual act, she can enjoy the adequate performance of it more.

Similarly, men have fantasies about developing simultaneous relationships with several sexual partners.

However, they are aware that it is tough to maintain these sexual relationships from an emotional point of view.

Many people feel uncomfortable when it comes to their fantasies, considering it perhaps out of place, strange to feel sexually stimulated by certain things, and unacceptable aspects for others. Most of the time, sexual fantasies are considered valuable possessions, which people are ashamed of; they see them as compromising aspects of their lives. Even psychologists have abandoned this subject of psychology in the last half-century, finding sexual fantasies to compromise for the person in question.

Sexual fantasies can express an unconscious aspect of the mind. For example, specific sexual fantasies, being submissive, humble, and dominated, can be correlated with the desire to experience sexual excitement without the participation of personal responsibility.

A surprising aspect of sexual fantasies is that most of us have a specific limitation of imagination: most fantasies are ordinary images without any out-of-the-ordinary part regarding the performance of explicit sexual activities related to a past or present partner. Despite the unlimited potential of imaginative freedom, sexual fantasies are well anchored in reality.

Misconceptions about sexual fantasies

• One of the most common misconceptions related to sexual fantasies is related to the freedom and imagination capacity of the partners of a couple: if the partners are really in love, they do not need to load their imaginations with sexual fantasies. Both men and women often have stories about certain erotic scenes, either alone or with another partner – this does not mean that something is missing from their relationship.
• Another misconception relates to sexual fantasies: You are abnormal if you have specific, more unusual stories. You will scare your partner if you share your sexual fantasy. Sharing a slightly more unusual sexual fantasy with your partner can even bring you closer; it is a moment of sincerity and intimacy beneficial for the relationship, even if the partner is not willing to participate in the sexual fantasy.
• These wrong conceptions of sexual fantasies were born from the opinions of Freud, who considered that a happy person does not have sexual fantasies but only an unsatisfied one.
• And nowadays, some people believe that sexual fantasies are compensation for the lack of sexual opportunities, embracing the wrong idea that if you have a healthy and fulfilling sex life, you don’t need sexual fantasies anymore.

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And I thought I’d tell you about what I think makes a woman attractive in front of a balanced man. I emphasized this because you don’t want to attract a man who is looking for trophies that he throws away after he conquers them or an emotionally unavailable man, totally lacking in empathy and focused only on himself. The escort girls from our Escort Service recommended this topic!

Be natural

Be you! Be natural, not as you think you would be better, smarter, sexier, funnier, more stylish, more interesting, more pleasant, more attentive, more benevolent. Any attempt to be someone else turns you into an inauthentic, rigid person who forces himself to be someone else for the sake of being liked, and in the end, he will tire of pretending. This could surprise and even alienate the partner who was attracted to your masks. Smile, joke, play, don’t take yourself so seriously; you’re on a date with the man you like, not a business one.

Be present

When you are present, you enjoy the company of the man you like, which makes you much more beautiful. You don’t think about how you should be, what you should do, what you should say. You are attentive to what is happening and what you feel. Not how to arch your lips, how the relationship that has not even started will evolve or how many children you will have. When you are present, you don’t sit on the phone or keep your eyes on the people around you, and that makes you much more attractive because you make the person in front of you feel the most important. And don’t forget eye contact. It’s extremely important, too.

Know yourself

The better you know yourself, the more confidence you have, making you super sexy. Please don’t feel stupid because you don’t know something; you’re open to learning from others and comfortable with your body as it is or with skin imperfections. You understand and love yourself as you are without being concerned about hiding what you don’t like about yourself.

Access your feminine energy!

In a world of speed where we have so much to do, we forget to be women: warm, gentle, empathetic, patient, without a harsh voice, attentive, open, and communicative. We are quick, strong, determined, and independent, traits characteristic of masculine energy. It’s hard for a man to want something he already has.

• Don’t cry
• Don’t victimize yourself.
• Don’t gossip.
• Don’t criticize him.
• Do not use vulgar words.
• Don’t raise your voice.
• Don’t be passive-aggressive.
• Don’t scold him.
• Don’t do anything you wouldn’t like done to you.

Set limits

No matter how much you like a man, it doesn’t mean you must tolerate things that put you in an unpleasant situation. A woman who respects herself will always be respected and attractive.

Create a style that benefits you

Dress the way you know you look good: dresses made of flowing, silky materials on the body or a pair of jeans and a simple white T-shirt. I, for one, was surprised by the effect it can have.

Ask questions that provoke or surprise.

Be curious to know as much as possible about the man you like. And when he tells you something, be present.

Enter the feminine energy

“To do” is the verb that defines masculine energy, and “to be” is the one that defines feminine energy. Give yourself more permission to “be” instead of “do”. Women sometimes tend to take the initiative and end up doing more things than men, alienating them, even if they don’t realize it themselves. It’s something related to the subconscious.

Show your enthusiasm

Show your joy for the things and gestures he does for you. This will encourage him to do more.

Give him compliments

And men like to receive compliments as much as we do, so don’t be shy to say if you want something about him.

Men are mirrors for us. Sometimes, when you don’t like something about him, it might just be a reflection of you. Stop for a second and ask yourself if what you see is true. I say this because I was dating a man a few years ago, and he seemed very close to me on the second date. I wondered why. Then, I turned my attention to myself and realized that he was doing nothing but mirroring me. As I opened up, magic happened.

Be present! Be natural and enjoy yourself at every meeting.

Self-confidence is born from listening to the heart.

One of my favourite songs is “Listen”, performed by Beyonce. Do you know it? I could call it a manifesto of identity – a woman’s voice rises, asserting her uniqueness, finding the strength to break away from the expectations of those around her (however dear), to find herself and manifest herself by following her voice inside, the voice of your own heart.

I believe that every heart is unique. And I think that every heart speaks. Secretly, the heart urges us to do what is good for us; it tells us about what we want and gives us a start whenever opportunities arise in our lives to fulfil our dreams, longings, aspirations, the desires of the heart, which make our hearts grow with joy.

From this listening to the heart, from this self-affirmation and manifestation of what we are, in a unique and unrepeatable way, SELF-TRUST is born because self-confidence is the certainty that you are you and it’s good that you exist.

Self-confidence is a gift you give yourself whenever you bend your ear to hear and interpret the whisper of your heart; a gift that makes you smile, make your voice heard in the sky, dance freely on the stage of life, to be – simply – YOU.

I suggest you choose one day this week to spend in solitude. You with yourself, listening to your inner voice, clarifying your thoughts, detaching yourself from the past, listening to your favorite music, making lists of what you want to achieve, dreaming and visualizing, meditating and above all, asking yourself: “Who am I?”

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Sex only once a week

Just 30 years ago, 18 to 30-year-olds had sex about 18 to 22 times a month. Hardly a day went by without coitus. Today things are quite different: this age group only has fun with their partner 4 to 10 times a month.

The situation is no better for the 31 to 40-year-olds either. The average European only has sex 3 to 6 times here, whereas 30 years ago, the figures were 8 to 12 times sex per month. The 41 to 50-year-olds have scaled back their love lives even further—6 to 10 times sex per month 30 years ago versus 2 to 3 times sex today.

In the 50+ generation, sex no longer seems to play a role. They hire escort girls only to have fun here once or twice a month. It was pretty different 30 years ago. The numbers were still 4 to 8 times. These numbers surprise sex researchers, as the trend has been apparent over the last few decades. According to the experts, it will go down even further in the coming decades, and Europeans will have even less sex.

Reasons for decline in sex enjoyment

Of course, knowing why interest in sex has decreased so dramatically would be interesting. Unfortunately, there are only a few studies on this, which together do not lead to a precise result. The respondents often give too little time. In addition to children and a job, there would hardly be any time left for your partner.

But the children and the job took up a lot of time 30 years ago, which is why we tend to assume there is a perceived lack of time here. Still at the forefront is too much stress. Our lives are becoming increasingly hectic, so many Europeans find it difficult to clear their heads for sex. It’s often a gradual process, and you don’t even notice how sex slowly disappears from everyday life.

Social anxiety also leads to less sex. It’s hard to believe, but our numerous communication options via social media allow us to get to know people in virtual space and talk to them there. Still, in real life, we ​​often develop a reluctance to make contact.

Another worrying point is that more and more men are experiencing erectile dysfunction. Fifty-two per cent have slight to very severe problems with it. Eighty-three per cent of those affected then withdraw and avoid situations where sex can occur. This puts additional strain on the partnership.

How do we get more sex again?

If you find yourself in the study results and want to change something now, you have already taken the first step. Most Europeans are happy with their sex life but don’t consider it any further.

According to the study, sex in our bedrooms lasts between 3.8 and 5.9 minutes on average. For quick fun in between, that might be fine now and then. As a rule, however, we should allow ourselves more time for sex.

Always try new things or reserve a whole morning/afternoon/evening for lovemaking. You don’t have to have sex all the time. But spending time with your partner and seeing what you like creates awareness of good sex again.

Help with erectile dysfunction

Even if not enough sex in a partnership is due to erectile dysfunction, you shouldn’t give up immediately. The number of problems has increased because people stress themselves far too much these days. Taking your time and trying, again and again, solves a lot of issues here. If that doesn’t help, then there is also modern medicine, which has made enormous progress in this direction. Man has various sexual enhancers that help with a firm erection.

Erectile dysfunction is always a reason to reconsider your lifestyle. Do you drink alcohol excessively or daily? Do you smoke daily, or do you not exercise? Then it’s time to change things. You will then see success after just a few weeks.

Risks of erectile dysfunction

Less well-known are the risks of erectile dysfunction. A recent study shows that 30 per cent of men with these problems are prone to depression. In some cases, this becomes so strong that those affected can no longer work and withdraw from social circles.

We should deal with the topic more openly and address it openly. Sex is fantastic, but you shouldn’t give up if it doesn’t work out that way. It is better to work on it with your partner and keep trying. Especially in old age, hormone surges can also cause problems. But these often disappear just as quickly as they came. However, once the issue has manifested itself in the head, the erectile dysfunction persists even after the hormone surge.

About erection

The mechanism of erection is not only related to desire, but mainly to sexual stimuli and the general state of health of the man, more precisely to the functioning of the nervous system (which transmits the signals of excitement) and circulatory system (ensures vascularization at the level of the penis), but also other factors.

The penis consists of two sponge-like formations of erectile tissue spread over the entire organ length, called corpora cavernosa, which contain a labyrinth of blood vessels in the form of hollow spaces (like a sponge). These arterial spaces will accumulate the most significant amount of blood from the penis during erection. The urethra is a common channel for urine and spermatozoa; it passes along the posterior part of the corpora cavernosa. An erectile tissue surrounds it, called the corpus spongiosum, which contains two main arteries, vessels and nerves and protects the urethra during erection.

An erection begins with sensory and mental stimulation. During sexual arousal, nerve messages cause stimulation of the penis and relaxation of the muscles of the corpora cavernosa, allowing blood to fill the open arterial spaces, which will create pressure in these hollow structures, the penis enlarges, and an erection is caused.

The tunica albuginea (the membrane surrounding the hollow bodies) helps these formations capture blood, supporting the erection. The erection is reversed when the muscles of the penis contract, stopping the flow of blood and opening the exit channels.

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Here, at the Escort Service, everyone know that sexual behavior is determined on the one hand by biological factors (genetic and hormonal) and on the other by educational, ethnic and social aspects.

The anatomical structures involved in the determinism of sexual behavior are:

• The hypothalamus governs the production of sexual hormones but is also directly involved in specific emotional and behavioral reactions.
• The medial preoptic area is responsible for stimulating sexual behavior, especially in men. At this level, there is a dimorphic sexual nucleus that controls the functions of the pituitary gland and the vegetative system and integrates information. It seems to hold especially in the consummation phase of sexual behaviour and less so in the initiation phase.
• The ventromedial nucleus seems to be involved in directing female sexual behaviour.
• Mammary bodies are involved in the sexual behaviour of both sexes.
• The limbic system intervenes in the genesis of sexual satisfaction
• The temporal lobe seems to be involved in sexual behaviour, as well as the frontal.

Sexual dimorphism, sexually dimorphic structures and functions are the basis of sexual behaviour.

The sexually dimorphic structures are:

1. genetic sex is the first sexual differentiation of the individual and appears in the zygote stage, represented by the chromosomal formula.
2. gonadal sex (of the sexual glands) is by definition dimorphic and develops genetically conditioned.
3. gonochoric sex (of the genitals). The external genital organs differentiate under the action of gonadal hormones.
4. sexual dimorphism of the central nervous system and the hypothalamus.

The sexually dimorphic functions are:

1. Gender identity – the individual’s awareness that he belongs to one sex or another.
2. Sexual role – everything an individual does to reveal to himself and others that he belongs to one sex or the other.
3. Aggressive behaviour is more strongly expressed in males.

Sex hormones have a vital role in determining sexual behaviour, starting by stimulating the differentiation of target tissues during intrauterine life (beginning with the 4th month of pregnancy) and continuing until puberty.

Of course, the intervention of the educational component in shaping the adult’s sexual behavior cannot be neglected.

The development of sexual behaviour, therefore, begins in intrauterine life when, under the action of gonadal hormones, the LH-RH secretion pattern stabilizes at the hypothalamic level (it is continuous in men and cyclic in escort girls). This phenomenon occurs in the IV-VI months of pregnancy. Later, in the VII-IX months, different sexual behaviour will be organized for the two sexes.

The excess of androgens from the prenatal period in girls can cause genital ambiguity with different degrees of severity, going up to the complete masculinization of the external sexual organs, the orientation being, however, heterosexual in the vast majority of cases. Equally, androgen deficiency in male subjects will cause genital ambiguity in the same period.

Recent studies have demonstrated that exposure to both estrogens and androgens in excess during extrauterine life would facilitate the more frequent expression of homo and bisexuality.

During childhood, around 2-4 years, gender identity develops under environmental stimuli – parents’ behaviour, civil identity, etc.

At puberty, under the action of sex hormones, the secondary sexual characteristics develop as well as the neuropsychic ones that allow the individual to comply with the demands imposed by adult life. Thus, the genital organs will develop morphologically but also from the point of view of excitability and on the behavioural level, it facilitates the expression of erotic and sexual behaviour. In boys, the increase, initially nocturnal, of the testosterone level will be reflected in the appearance of nocturnal pollution and then in the initiation and maintenance of masturbation.

The eroticism manifested at puberty shows differences from one sex to another. In boys, imagination anticipates actual sexual behaviour and excitability is dominated by visual stimuli, while in girls, vision is poor and tactile inspirations and previous experiences dominate excitability. In boys, libido and sexual function are correlated with the level of androgens, and in girls, with the interaction with other girls who have this experience.

Androgenic hormones maintain the sexual behaviour of the adult man by stimulating the trophicity of the genital organs as well as by initiating and sustaining desire and sexual dynamics. Nocturnal and diurnal erections are spontaneous and dependent on testosterone, but those induced by erotic stimuli are not (Bancroft 1989), so sexual behaviour shows relative independence from hormonal stimuli.

In women, sexual behaviour is activated by gonadal hormones.

Still, the experience of orgasm is somewhat conditioned by the social and relational context, by experience, and then by the level of sexual hormones.

In older women, due to the decrease in hormonal secretion, there are problems related to vaginal lubrication, resulting in fear of penetration and the disappearance of sexual desire. The administration of estrogens can solve issues related to lubrication.

In older men, the quality of erections and ejaculations slowly decreases. The period of genital stimulation required to obtain an erection increases. If these changes occur against the background of maintaining sexual desire, the psychological effects can be highly unpleasant.

Regarding homosexual behaviour, it seems that the levels of circulating sex hormones have average values.

Still, there is a possibility that the response of the hypothalamic-pituitary-gonadal chain to hormonal stimuli is lower, or their metabolism in the brain is modified.

For a long time, the idea that the emergence of homosexuality was linked to traumatic heterosexual sexual experiences at a young age was accredited, and attempts were made to reorient the subject sexually. This is an attempt doomed to failure because established homosexuality is irreversible.

Unlike homosexuality, a disorder of sexual orientation, transsexualism is a profound disorder of gender identity (the subject is convinced that he belongs to the other sex, contrary to his physical constitution).

Of all the pathogenic theories developed to explain the emergence of transsexualism, the hormonal one seems to be the most solid. This supports the existence of a hormonal deficit since intrauterine life that would lead to a defect in the organization of the primordia of sexual behavior. Anyway, transsexuality, like homosexuality, is irreversible, so any attempt to convince the subject to accept his biological sex is doomed to failure and, therefore, useless.

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I was looking at my pictures on Instagram and realized that I am laughing or super happy in most of them, but this does not entirely reflect reality. I am not always cheerful but, as an escort girl, I am always full of energy. I have days when I’m not the happiest, days when I’m tired, or days when I don’t feel good emotionally or even physically; I just don’t feel like taking pictures when I’m like that. I conserve my energy to recover, just me with me.

But I know that there are many people who, looking at my feed, imagine that I don’t go through such moments and that my life is without and maybe only milk and honey. I felt like writing about this because I know how frustrating it can be to think that only your life is difficult, while others seem perfect, without a cloud in the sky. The key, my dears, is in this simple word: “seem”.

I know so many women who are unhappy because their lives aren’t perfect, their families aren’t perfect, their jobs aren’t ideal, and the perfection they see flaunted so casually by others on social media frustrates them even more. It makes them hate themselves, even more, both themselves and their lives.

I didn’t think that anyone still believes that life is as seen on Instagram, but there are still people with this impression, not a few.

No, life is not what it looks like on Instagram.

More than that, even if you are among those who know, in theory, that Instagram does not present reality, it seems that all those perfect pictures still frustrate you. You want to be like the others…always cheerful, happy, loved, flawless, at restaurants and exclusive bars or on extravagant vacations.

I, for one, am not always happy and don’t think anyone is. I have moments when I have ringworm up to my neck and no desire for anything. I have moments when I have health problems or lack energy when I don’t have the usual patience or tolerance. But my friends at the Escort Agency are always there for me!

Families and couples are not all in one; love and happiness continue as they pose. On the contrary, as Sonja Lyubomirsky, professor at the Faculty of Psychology in California and author of the book The How of Happiness: A New Approach to Getting The Life You Want, says: the prettier and more arranged the apple, the more likely it is to be greedy on the inside.

I cannot speak from a study’s perspective, but I can say that I have seen so many couples who are not well, have dysfunctional, aggressive relationships, and live double or parallel lives. At the same time, their social media posts are flooded with statements of love and moments when he shouts his happiness.

Life is made of better and worse moments; no perfect picture will solve them or make them more accessible. The solution comes only when you accept what exists and act accordingly if you have the courage to make a change and don’t care what people say.

So stop dreaming of the perfect life that you see displayed on all the feeds.

It doesn’t exist. Nobody has an ideal life. Everyone flaunts it, lying to themselves out of the desire not to be inferior to those around them. Don’t get into this game where no one is happy. It’s just a competition that can surely only lead to something that will affect our emotional health, which is already fragile even more.

Connect to yourself and be as you are!

How do you do this on social media when everyone puts on blood makeup daily? How can you be different when we are taught that it is good not to be different? How to show that you are not perfect in a world that seems and wants to be perfect?

To begin with, I invite you to think about a few things before you post:

Why are you posting? What is your goal? Want to impress someone? Do you want to attract attention? Do you like to send a message? Do you like to contribute? Do you want to brag?

If you have a bad day, how do you feel about posting? You don’t necessarily have to tell her if you don’t want to. Still, you also don’t have to display an opposite attitude just to receive the likes that will give you back for a few moments that feeling of well-being directly proportional to the number of likes.

Do you use Faceapp and Facetune or other photo editing applications that you think can make you more beautiful and happier?

Things work exactly the other way around. Work on happiness and inner beauty, and you will no longer feel the need to use any application.

Have you argued with your husband or boyfriend, or is the relationship no longer going the way you want? I saw that the temptation is to post as many pictures as possible to show how happy you are. Do you think it helps you? If so, how and for what?

It is clear that we all want to live in a more beautiful world. Let’s make it so by starting to be authentic, showing us as we are, taking off the masks that tire us and become more complex as time passes, ultimately crippling us on the inside.

We all want to be seen, heard and felt as we are, but for that, we must have the courage to show ourselves that way. I know you wait for the other to do it first because you would feel safer, and your pride doesn’t want to give in. But what happens when the other person thinks the same as you? Nothing.

Allow yourself to be you! Do you have this courage?

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The Playboy generation could have experienced it for the first time by finding a hidden magazine stuffed under a mattress or hidden in a dresser drawer. In today’s age of Porn Hub, too many stumbled upon it while playing an online video game, scrolling through social media, or because a Google Image search didn’t work correctly. Or maybe a friend pulled out his phone during a night of sleep, showing you images you wouldn’t have thought existed until you saw them yourself.

There is no doubt that today, the porn film industry is more accessible, available and anonymous than ever, which is a big problem.

And, since the explosion of readily available Internet porn in the 90s, you don’t have to look very hard for porn to find it at the click of a button. It can be accessed from any mobile device with zero effort and zero limitations on what consumers can find. And although it might seem that the consumer controls the situation every time they access porn movies, this could not be further from the truth.

1. The industry controls.

The adult entertainment industry wants to make consumers feel in control.

Free tube sites and paid subscription sites would love consumers to click, play and watch their content daily. These sites are not interested in the mental health of consumers, the state of their relationships or their career dreams and goals. Everything is about money and always about money – how can I make anyone who follows be hooked longer and stay on the site as long as possible?

Think of it this way. As consumers become attached to hardcore porn content and are unable or unwilling to stop watching, even when they say it’s not harmful, who is really in control? Hint: not the consumer.

No matter how many times the porn industry says that “sexual freedom” is their goal, science and research continue to confirm the opposite reality. In many ways, the porn film industry continues to be scientifically proven to exert a considerable influence on people’s sexuality.

This is especially true for children and adolescents. The porn film industry does not make significant efforts to keep its products out of the hands of children and young people. Our generation and future generations are coming of age with views and understandings of sex significantly shaped by porn. How is it healthy? In addition, only the porn film industry will benefit from a financial point of view from getting involved in people’s sexual lives. The idea that the porn film industry reflects sexual culture rather than shaping it is naive.

2. Not all performing artists are in the industry voluntarily and consensually.

The porn industry would also like its customers to believe they are learning valuable information, such as sex tips and how to be a great lover. It would be nice for consumers to think that all those who sing in hardcore and abusive porn movies are having fun and “love their job”. Video after video, with categories like “gang bang” and “teen”, porn sites sell people as sex objects with no real needs, no real dreams, no families or hardships they face in real life.

This, again, could not be further from the truth. The average consumer does not know that many men and women are forced into the industry through coercive means, blackmail, or false “modelling” contracts that cause them to have sex on camera for money. Or, what happens very often is that established performing artists are forced or tricked into filming sexual acts that they are uncomfortable with or do not want to do.

This is in addition to the fact that many performers have mental and physical health problems from having a job that includes having rough and unprotected sex with several people weekly. Also, many porn film actors fall into drug or alcohol addiction problems in their attempts to numb the physical pain of filming scenes or even prescription drug problems to continue performing unrealistic sex acts.

Like this escort girl who went to a porn movie and the first thing she was given was drugged to help film what she didn’t know was a rape scene:

‘”You’re going to be a star.'”

He told me as he handed me more Xanax and a muscle relaxant. “You’re going to need these, trust me,” he said. Can any of you tell me if you’ve ever shown up to work on an empty stomach and said you’re on drugs? Something is not right here. ”

When consumers click on hardcore porn sites, they may fuel someone else’s pain and suffering. We do not claim that all porn films are non-compliant. We’re just pointing out that some are and some aren’t and that when you watch it, there’s no way to know which one it is.

So, would you buy from a company if you knew that some, but not all, of their products, were made with child labour? Would you support a store that abused some, but not all, of its employees?

How can it be ethical to say that “porn movies are okay because the participants give their consent” when we know that some – probably much more than you think – don’t?

3. Porn has adverse effects on consumers

The adverse effects of the industry do not stop at the deterioration of the life and health of their employees. The $97 billion global industry would love to attract young consumers as lifelong customers. They wouldn’t care that a compulsive user’s life is more complicated by porn or that their product can worsen depression and anxiety.

The industry wouldn’t want you to know that watching a lot of porn over a long period can make consumers less aroused when in an actual situation with a real partner or that the sexual advice porn movies are pretty useless when it comes to sound and healthy sexual relations. The way men and women have sex in the room is configured so that the consumer at home can see what is happening, and that’s it. After all, just because something looks good on camera with specific lighting, editing, and angles doesn’t mean it will feel good with a natural person in real life.

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